Let's look at the point of 'having a military' that is in fact in complete contradiction of 'what is best for all' as 'having a military' is only considering 'what is best for MY/OUR country', which is like an extension of the ego wherein each individual wants/desires to protect himself from other people who are apparently 'threatening', not realizing that beings will only want to attack when they themselves feel threatened.
So, in an EMS, we realize that it is completely redundant to create unnecessary 'threats' by carrying weapons and creating armies, as this will only instigate the feeling within 'other countries' that they have to 'weaponize' also.
The ideal is to ban all weapons, because the design and manifestation of a weapon in itself represents 'destruction', which is obviously unacceptable. Though the existence of weapons as 'means of destruction' within our current world, says a lot about the human being, as who/what we have allowed ourselves to become, on this planet.
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zondag 23 oktober 2011
2011 What happens to the money that I have when an Equal Money System is enforced?
So, what will happen to my savings and the 'extra money' that I have when an Equal Money System is in place?
Will I get to keep it or do I have to give it up?
Ok, with an Equal Money System, the key objective is to start over, to create a completely new system, with a new currency (Equalities – The Symbol: Є), so yes, the money you had been saving and building up will have no value anymore.
Though, your savings becoming invalid doesn't mean anything like 'inflation' where the currency of the money becomes 'worthless' and the people using the money are suddenly left with nothing, because the entire point of the Equal Money System is to provide for each being unconditionally.
So, you will have enough money to pay for everything that needs to be paid for, so from that perspective you will not need 'savings' anymore as money that most people only save up 'for a rainy day' anyways. There will be no more rainy days in an Equal Money System ever again, no more inflation, no more 'countries going bankrupt', no more economic crises, no more raising taxes, so in essence: no more uncertainty and insecurity towards the future.
Once an Equal Money System is in place, it will be here forever, because this is the only system that can not go bankrupt, that will not waver, as this system is built on the one single principle that is able to stand unto eternity, the principle of 'doing what is best for all', which is a principle that cannot be attacked or counter-argumented as any and all counterarguments to this principle is of self interest and selfishness, and selfishness is unacceptable within this reality where we are millions of beings living on one planet, so therefore we must take all those beings into the equation when making decisions and creating/implementing a system.
So then what about the point of 'I have been working all my life to save up this money, so it would be unfair to have to now give it up, it would be like giving up my life'. First of all, a statement such as this is only made within the belief of human beings that we are completely defined by the money that we have. Within the current system human beings are , all throughout their lives, only worried and thinking about money, only thinking about what they have and will have and what is in their bank account and savings account, so it is as though we have BECOME the money that we have because we've literally built our lives around it, so it would then feel as though our life would be taken away from us if our money were to be taken away from us.
What must be realized here, however, is that this is but a mind-set/belief/idea, that doesn't actually consider the physical reality and requirements. It is a mind-set that is entirely cultivated by the design of the current system, wherein money rules our lives and wherein we have placed value unto ourselves based on the amount of money that we have.
I imagine it would be difficult for older citizens to give up their savings as they have completely integrated this mind-set within themselves and where the savings that they have saved up throughout their entire life, now seems to be the only thing that gives some 'value' to their ending life.
Within an Equal Money System, it is this very mind-set that changes, so it is not about 'having to give up your savings/money' and thus apparently becoming 'worth less', it is about realizing that money does not determine the value of who you are and of your life.
Also, obviously the richest people will be the biggest protestors to this point of the EMS as they have been able to live a life within the belief/feeling that they as beings and their lives are worth so much more than all the lives of those people with much less or no money, as the money that they have gives them a position of 'power' because in the current system, 'money=power'. So it is this feeling of apparently 'having power over' everyone else, that they will not want to give up. Though thankfully, due to what they desired and created, the 'richest' in this world, as the 'elite' is but a minority-group, and in the EMS the majority rules.
Also a reason why people tend to extensively save the money that they have earned and worked for in their life, is so that they can pass these savings on to their children, so that their children may have a 'better'/'easier' life. So this is an important point to consider with regards to 'having no heritage to pass on'. Now, again, this point has only been important in the current system wherein you have to 'fight/struggle to survive' and wherein it is possible to 'lose everything' and therefore parents feel the need/desire to make sure that this will never happen to their offspring. So the desire to save up as much as we can, is only experienced due to fear of the opposite (=fear of losing it all), a fear that will not be able to exist in an Equal Money System, as all will unconditionally be taken care of. So the point of 'being able to have a good/easy life' is not even in question in an EMS.
Will I get to keep it or do I have to give it up?
Ok, with an Equal Money System, the key objective is to start over, to create a completely new system, with a new currency (Equalities – The Symbol: Є), so yes, the money you had been saving and building up will have no value anymore.
Though, your savings becoming invalid doesn't mean anything like 'inflation' where the currency of the money becomes 'worthless' and the people using the money are suddenly left with nothing, because the entire point of the Equal Money System is to provide for each being unconditionally.
So, you will have enough money to pay for everything that needs to be paid for, so from that perspective you will not need 'savings' anymore as money that most people only save up 'for a rainy day' anyways. There will be no more rainy days in an Equal Money System ever again, no more inflation, no more 'countries going bankrupt', no more economic crises, no more raising taxes, so in essence: no more uncertainty and insecurity towards the future.
Once an Equal Money System is in place, it will be here forever, because this is the only system that can not go bankrupt, that will not waver, as this system is built on the one single principle that is able to stand unto eternity, the principle of 'doing what is best for all', which is a principle that cannot be attacked or counter-argumented as any and all counterarguments to this principle is of self interest and selfishness, and selfishness is unacceptable within this reality where we are millions of beings living on one planet, so therefore we must take all those beings into the equation when making decisions and creating/implementing a system.
So then what about the point of 'I have been working all my life to save up this money, so it would be unfair to have to now give it up, it would be like giving up my life'. First of all, a statement such as this is only made within the belief of human beings that we are completely defined by the money that we have. Within the current system human beings are , all throughout their lives, only worried and thinking about money, only thinking about what they have and will have and what is in their bank account and savings account, so it is as though we have BECOME the money that we have because we've literally built our lives around it, so it would then feel as though our life would be taken away from us if our money were to be taken away from us.
What must be realized here, however, is that this is but a mind-set/belief/idea, that doesn't actually consider the physical reality and requirements. It is a mind-set that is entirely cultivated by the design of the current system, wherein money rules our lives and wherein we have placed value unto ourselves based on the amount of money that we have.
I imagine it would be difficult for older citizens to give up their savings as they have completely integrated this mind-set within themselves and where the savings that they have saved up throughout their entire life, now seems to be the only thing that gives some 'value' to their ending life.
Within an Equal Money System, it is this very mind-set that changes, so it is not about 'having to give up your savings/money' and thus apparently becoming 'worth less', it is about realizing that money does not determine the value of who you are and of your life.
Also, obviously the richest people will be the biggest protestors to this point of the EMS as they have been able to live a life within the belief/feeling that they as beings and their lives are worth so much more than all the lives of those people with much less or no money, as the money that they have gives them a position of 'power' because in the current system, 'money=power'. So it is this feeling of apparently 'having power over' everyone else, that they will not want to give up. Though thankfully, due to what they desired and created, the 'richest' in this world, as the 'elite' is but a minority-group, and in the EMS the majority rules.
Also a reason why people tend to extensively save the money that they have earned and worked for in their life, is so that they can pass these savings on to their children, so that their children may have a 'better'/'easier' life. So this is an important point to consider with regards to 'having no heritage to pass on'. Now, again, this point has only been important in the current system wherein you have to 'fight/struggle to survive' and wherein it is possible to 'lose everything' and therefore parents feel the need/desire to make sure that this will never happen to their offspring. So the desire to save up as much as we can, is only experienced due to fear of the opposite (=fear of losing it all), a fear that will not be able to exist in an Equal Money System, as all will unconditionally be taken care of. So the point of 'being able to have a good/easy life' is not even in question in an EMS.
zondag 2 oktober 2011
2011 The Bubble of Belgium
Belgium is one of the smallest countries in the World, but also one of the richest. Existing in Belgium is, compared to existing in the rest of the world, like living in ‘The Promised Land’. We have, compared to the rest of the world, an almost perfect social security and healthcare system.
Belgium is a ‘social system’ wherein pretty much everyone is taken care of, no one is left behind, we try our best to help everyone and to give everyone a chance at ‘a good life’.
As a child we often hear from our parents and environment that we should ‘count our lucky stars’ that we were born in Belgium when we see the atrocities of what is happening in the rest of the world. And we do feel lucky, and we do ‘count our lucky stars’. In a way we do see what is happening in the rest of the world, and we do realize that Belgium is the land of milk and honey in this world, and that is why we try to protect and defend ourselves, we try to protect our luck and wealth as much as we can, because we really are ‘lucky’ for having been born in Belgium, it could have been different.
Living in Belgium means being blinded from reality, because reality is not ‘perfect’, reality is not ‘just’ or ‘fair’, as the values that the Belgium system tries to uphold. But we literally don’t see that, somewhere in our minds we know that other countries aren’t doing so well because its what we see on tv and read about in newspapers, but we don’t actually REALIZE it, because we live in the ‘bubble of Belgium’ - ‘bel’ is the Dutch word for ‘bubble’, and ‘coincidentally’ our national monument is in fact made up of bubbles (see photo above).
As if we are a little separate universe, as this tiny country, literally, a ‘bubble’, completely fenced off, separate from ‘the rest of the world’. The rest of the World is but a distant reality that doesnt even seem ‘real’, it is something that we see on the news or read about in the papers once in a while, but we dont realize what a hell hole this World actually is because we ourselves are not actually experiencing it. For us, everything is ‘good’, and we live our lives based and founded on this idea and belief that ‘all is good’, because that is the system that we live in, and we truly don’t see beyond this system, because our little bubble reality is ‘good’.
And statements like ‘we should count our Lucky stars…’ are in fact nothing but a protection/defence of our little rich country, it is a justification for the existence of Belgium as an exception to the rule. And we know this, we know that Belgium, with its ‘social system’ wherein every person is cared for, is an exception to the rule and we don’t even consider what this implies!
Because if Belgium, as one of the smallest countries in the world, is also one of the richest, then there must be something seriously wrong with this world. This means that only the select, small group of people that just happen to live in Belgium (and a few other countries) have a chance at happiness, a chance at wealth, a chance at a ‘dignified life’. This is absurd!! And why did we never ask questions about this point? Because of justifying statements such as ‘we should count our Lucky stars…’.
Instead of realizing that we shouldnt feel ‘lucky’ about this, we should feel ashamed. We should be ashamed that a country like Belgium even exists, with a population of people that live in decadence, compared to the rest of the World, and that are completely oblivious and unaware of the actual reality of this world. Because we’ve been so pampered, poor things, there is a safety net everywhere, all around us a ‘social security’. There is so many institutions that ensure that it is almost impossible for the Belgian citizen to become poor. We are pampered to such an extent that we have pampers in our eyes and ears, that cause us to not see reality, we only see ‘the Belgian reality’, wherein everything is ‘fine’ and ‘ok’, wherein we complain and whine about irrelevant shit like splitting up some small villages because of some language barrier, and about losing our ‘cultural heritage’ as ‘the Flemish people’ and about never getting any sun in Belgium. We don’t even realize that all our so called ‘problems’ are completely irrelevant to what other people are experiencing, that didnt have the ‘luck’ of being born in Belgium.
So, Belgian people, fellow citizens, it is about time that we get those pampers out of our eyes and ears and that we start realizing what reality truly is.
Because, why are we human beings, citizens of the WORLD, allowing a country such as Belgium to exist, as a few people in the entire world who get to live in the ‘land of milk and honey’ while the rest of the world is waisting away?
If our life cannot be the norm for every living being on this planet, than it is unacceptable! It is time that we burst the bubble and work together at manifesting/implementing/creating the ‘Promised Land’ for each and every being on this earth unconditionally.
This is no ideology, no dream, no utopia, the only thing that is necessary for this is that we human beings get our heads out of our asses and take a good look around to the world of which we are all citizens, it is time that we give up our selfishness and actually start caring about another as ourselves, unconditionally!!
A person that dares look at the World will no longer justify, will no longer defend and protect the personal wealth, but they will see that something is terribly wrong with this World as what we humans as ‘humanity’ have created and they will look for a solution, no matter what, within and as the realization that this World is simply not worth ‘surviving’ in.
Because, come on, if you were to die and you look back on your life, what will you have done that was actually worth something? If you do not live to bring about a World that is truly best for all beings, than you dont even really exist, because selfishness is not worth existing, and deep down you are aware of this.
So, join us within the creation/implementation/perfection/manifestation of a money system/world system wherein every being will be supported unconditionally, and wherein any form of elitism and selfishness is banned for all eternity, as a world that is worth living in!
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zaterdag 1 oktober 2011
2011 And God created Values
What kind of a God/creator would create a world where such a thing like 'values' and 'norms' and 'rules' exist, as a picture perfect, an ideal image of what you have to 'live up to' and be according to what it means to be 'a good person'.
Our common values (=standard of living) are for instance:
there is nothing 'wrong' with having values or with the existence of values per se, the only problem about this is that these values are not applicable by all human beings unconditionally, not everyone is able to 'fit the profile' of 'being a good person' according to these commonly accepted values and there are consequences to these values that we have collectively been shutting our eyes to. lets have a look at the reality of the existence of values in this world:
1. marrying someone of the opposite sex: there are many people in this reality who simply don't feel attracted to the opposite sex, they cant help it and they wish it wasn't like that for them because they also just want to be 'a good person' and 'fit the profile', but for them that would mean having to live a life of feeling unsatisfied and of suppression of what they actually want. While other people are just 'lucky' that they have 'normal' desires so that they will feel good about marrying someone of the opposite sex.
And what about forced marriages taking place in a lot of poor countries wherein a woman is only seen as 'valuable' to their family if she marries a man because then the family is seen as 'good', in most cases this leads to sexual abuse as the girls are 'given away' at a very young age where they aren't even sexually mature yet.
There are also people who don't look attractive/pretty/physically appealing enough to easily get a partner, they then spend their lives within a constant search for an attractive partner so they fit the ideal image in their minds as what they've learned from this world as who and what they apparently have to be in this world to be 'a good person', always feeling as if there's something wrong with them, which often leads to depression and possibly suicide.
2. having children with that person: there are many women and men who cannot have children because their body is infertile, this leaves them feeling as though there is something 'wrong' with them because they cannot fit the profile of 'being a good person' according to the values that exist in this world about what it means to 'live a good life'.
3. & 4. living in a nice house and having a car: this requires money and lets consider here that more than half of the worlds population doesn't have money due to various circumstances, so apparently all of these people are simply unable to 'live a good life' and 'be a good person'
5. having a good job: in many countries there are simply no jobs available because of poor economy or a government that just doesn't give a shit, and no jobs means no money, no money means no future means no life. these people can go to school, they can work and try all they want but if there are no jobs available in the system, they're fucked.
6. paying taxes: apparently you're a 'good citizen' if you pay your taxes, if you are able to fit into the system of making money and paying your taxes. so all the people with physical/emotional or mental disabilities who live off the social security are being looked down on because they are 'not contributing' thus not being a 'good citizen', when they can't even help their situation.
7. having friends: all for the sake of 'having friends' and 'being sociable/social' we suppress our real expression so we can 'fit in' and be accepted by a group of friends and then we go and do things we regret later because of 'peer pressure', because we believe that we are only 'good' when we have friends
8. having a loving family: and 'sticking by your family' and 'you must always respect your family', etc... is a value that is mostly played out by religion, wherein you are expected to give your power away to your family because apparently you must 'love' your family to be a 'good person' in the eyes of other people, even if your parents abuse you and doesn't truly care about you, this actually causes for a lot of pain because you are just trying your best to be 'good enough' for your parents and just because the parents don't agree with decisions that you made, you feel as though you are a bad person, never realizing that parents are just people that aren't perfect.
9. having good looks: 'beauty' and having good looks are always associated with 'romance' and 'love', because that is what is shown on television, this is the 'picture perfect' that is being presented to us with regards to how our lives must look as a picture. so, if you look 'beautiful' like the people on tv then you are lucky because then you can participate in all the 'nice' and 'good' things of this reality such as relationships and fame, you won't have to make much effort to marry 'a good catch' or to get the things that you want in this world, all because you 'look the part' and you 'fit the profile' of what is being presented in this world as 'how a person/life should be. obviously this causes for a reality that is 'unfair' because the ones who have the looks get everything without any trouble and the ones without the looks have to work much harder to reach/attain any of the 'values' in life.
there are however also consequences to the glorification of good looks, for example where young girls and women are being sexually abused and molested just because they look 'desirable', so they are being desired by men as if they were just a thing/object that can be 'taken'.
10. having (more than) enough money: people without money are looked down upon by those who have money, and those who have lots of money are looked up to. so, 'having money' is a value in this reality, where subconsciously people see people who have money as 'good', we respect and accept them more, we listen more to them, we pay more attention to them and we want to be close to them.
but because of the difference in infrastructure between counties (where some countries have a good social security, education and economic system, and other countries do not) and regions within countries and because of the hierarchy between families that already exist for a long time that caused for 'layers in society' due to heritage, children who are born into this world simply don't get an equal opportunity/chance to earn the money they need to provide for themselves to live/survive.
All of these values are in fact 'invalid' because when you look at the reality of the physical world, they exist in denial of the truth, which is that it is impossible for all people to be able to obtain/reach these values and to 'fit into the profile of being a good person'.
So then why do we keep on living as if these values are real and as if they determine our lives and who we are as a being?
It is because we believe that somehow they were handed to us by God, or whatever it is that you want to call God, the truth is that every single being actually exists within the belief that these values for some reason cannot and must not be questioned by us mortals, because somehow they are 'bigger than us, bigger than you and me', we have all come to accept that this is 'life', that this is 'just the way things are', because it is how the human world has always been as what we have learned from our parents and society. Even if you think you don't believe in God, you must admit that you do believe in these 'values', simply because they were passed down on you by your forefathers as if they were written on some magical, meaningful tablet and therefore they cannot be questioned.
And why can they not be questioned? Because our parents/God told us so.
However if God does not want to be questioned, then doesn't that mean that he has something to hide?
Because if we took the time to look at the reality that is the result of our 'worshiping' of these values, then I find it hard not to question God's intentions.
Why did God create 'values' that aren't unconditionally applicable and obtainable for every living being?
Why did God create such a thing like 'values', that causes people to fight and struggle and compete with others in their life only to be able to be 'good enough' according to the 'values', so that they can feel good about themselves, when in fact turning their own lives into hell because of how they have to suppress themselves as their true expression in order to live according to the values?
It is time we open our eyes and start asking questions about what is real in this reality, because 'God' obviously has no intention of creating a reality that is unconditionally supportive for each and every being and where every living being is valuable. Therefore we must take responsibility to give value to life and to stop trusting in 'God', as it is the only way in which this reality will ever change.
If you are ready to take responsibility for life and to start acting in a way that will support the establishment of a New system for a New World, then join Desteni I Process and investigate Equal Money.
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Our common values (=standard of living) are for instance:
- marrying someone of the opposite sex
- having children with that person (preferably 2 or 3)
- living in a nice house
- having a car
- having a good job
- paying taxes
- having friends
- having a loving family
- having good looks
- having enough (more than) money
- etcetera...
there is nothing 'wrong' with having values or with the existence of values per se, the only problem about this is that these values are not applicable by all human beings unconditionally, not everyone is able to 'fit the profile' of 'being a good person' according to these commonly accepted values and there are consequences to these values that we have collectively been shutting our eyes to. lets have a look at the reality of the existence of values in this world:
1. marrying someone of the opposite sex: there are many people in this reality who simply don't feel attracted to the opposite sex, they cant help it and they wish it wasn't like that for them because they also just want to be 'a good person' and 'fit the profile', but for them that would mean having to live a life of feeling unsatisfied and of suppression of what they actually want. While other people are just 'lucky' that they have 'normal' desires so that they will feel good about marrying someone of the opposite sex.
And what about forced marriages taking place in a lot of poor countries wherein a woman is only seen as 'valuable' to their family if she marries a man because then the family is seen as 'good', in most cases this leads to sexual abuse as the girls are 'given away' at a very young age where they aren't even sexually mature yet.
There are also people who don't look attractive/pretty/physically appealing enough to easily get a partner, they then spend their lives within a constant search for an attractive partner so they fit the ideal image in their minds as what they've learned from this world as who and what they apparently have to be in this world to be 'a good person', always feeling as if there's something wrong with them, which often leads to depression and possibly suicide.
2. having children with that person: there are many women and men who cannot have children because their body is infertile, this leaves them feeling as though there is something 'wrong' with them because they cannot fit the profile of 'being a good person' according to the values that exist in this world about what it means to 'live a good life'.
3. & 4. living in a nice house and having a car: this requires money and lets consider here that more than half of the worlds population doesn't have money due to various circumstances, so apparently all of these people are simply unable to 'live a good life' and 'be a good person'
5. having a good job: in many countries there are simply no jobs available because of poor economy or a government that just doesn't give a shit, and no jobs means no money, no money means no future means no life. these people can go to school, they can work and try all they want but if there are no jobs available in the system, they're fucked.
6. paying taxes: apparently you're a 'good citizen' if you pay your taxes, if you are able to fit into the system of making money and paying your taxes. so all the people with physical/emotional or mental disabilities who live off the social security are being looked down on because they are 'not contributing' thus not being a 'good citizen', when they can't even help their situation.
7. having friends: all for the sake of 'having friends' and 'being sociable/social' we suppress our real expression so we can 'fit in' and be accepted by a group of friends and then we go and do things we regret later because of 'peer pressure', because we believe that we are only 'good' when we have friends
8. having a loving family: and 'sticking by your family' and 'you must always respect your family', etc... is a value that is mostly played out by religion, wherein you are expected to give your power away to your family because apparently you must 'love' your family to be a 'good person' in the eyes of other people, even if your parents abuse you and doesn't truly care about you, this actually causes for a lot of pain because you are just trying your best to be 'good enough' for your parents and just because the parents don't agree with decisions that you made, you feel as though you are a bad person, never realizing that parents are just people that aren't perfect.
9. having good looks: 'beauty' and having good looks are always associated with 'romance' and 'love', because that is what is shown on television, this is the 'picture perfect' that is being presented to us with regards to how our lives must look as a picture. so, if you look 'beautiful' like the people on tv then you are lucky because then you can participate in all the 'nice' and 'good' things of this reality such as relationships and fame, you won't have to make much effort to marry 'a good catch' or to get the things that you want in this world, all because you 'look the part' and you 'fit the profile' of what is being presented in this world as 'how a person/life should be. obviously this causes for a reality that is 'unfair' because the ones who have the looks get everything without any trouble and the ones without the looks have to work much harder to reach/attain any of the 'values' in life.
there are however also consequences to the glorification of good looks, for example where young girls and women are being sexually abused and molested just because they look 'desirable', so they are being desired by men as if they were just a thing/object that can be 'taken'.
10. having (more than) enough money: people without money are looked down upon by those who have money, and those who have lots of money are looked up to. so, 'having money' is a value in this reality, where subconsciously people see people who have money as 'good', we respect and accept them more, we listen more to them, we pay more attention to them and we want to be close to them.
but because of the difference in infrastructure between counties (where some countries have a good social security, education and economic system, and other countries do not) and regions within countries and because of the hierarchy between families that already exist for a long time that caused for 'layers in society' due to heritage, children who are born into this world simply don't get an equal opportunity/chance to earn the money they need to provide for themselves to live/survive.
All of these values are in fact 'invalid' because when you look at the reality of the physical world, they exist in denial of the truth, which is that it is impossible for all people to be able to obtain/reach these values and to 'fit into the profile of being a good person'.
So then why do we keep on living as if these values are real and as if they determine our lives and who we are as a being?
It is because we believe that somehow they were handed to us by God, or whatever it is that you want to call God, the truth is that every single being actually exists within the belief that these values for some reason cannot and must not be questioned by us mortals, because somehow they are 'bigger than us, bigger than you and me', we have all come to accept that this is 'life', that this is 'just the way things are', because it is how the human world has always been as what we have learned from our parents and society. Even if you think you don't believe in God, you must admit that you do believe in these 'values', simply because they were passed down on you by your forefathers as if they were written on some magical, meaningful tablet and therefore they cannot be questioned.
And why can they not be questioned? Because our parents/God told us so.
However if God does not want to be questioned, then doesn't that mean that he has something to hide?
Because if we took the time to look at the reality that is the result of our 'worshiping' of these values, then I find it hard not to question God's intentions.
Why did God create 'values' that aren't unconditionally applicable and obtainable for every living being?
Why did God create such a thing like 'values', that causes people to fight and struggle and compete with others in their life only to be able to be 'good enough' according to the 'values', so that they can feel good about themselves, when in fact turning their own lives into hell because of how they have to suppress themselves as their true expression in order to live according to the values?
It is time we open our eyes and start asking questions about what is real in this reality, because 'God' obviously has no intention of creating a reality that is unconditionally supportive for each and every being and where every living being is valuable. Therefore we must take responsibility to give value to life and to stop trusting in 'God', as it is the only way in which this reality will ever change.
If you are ready to take responsibility for life and to start acting in a way that will support the establishment of a New system for a New World, then join Desteni I Process and investigate Equal Money.
desteni group
desteni 'I' process
equal money system
donderdag 22 september 2011
2011 being a silent participant - isolating self as ego
watch this video to have more perspective on what i ll be writing about: revenge of the ego
the key understanding here is that: when you find yourself 'extracting yourself' from the group that you are standing with, becoming a 'silent participant' by for example not speaking up and openly communicating, by doubting yourself in your expression towards the group and by not blogging or vlogging, by starting to isolate yourself in self judgement, then know that the ego is taking its 'revenge' on you.
the ego is making you believe that you are 'not worthy' of standing as life, together with all the other beings that stand as life, that you are not worthy of openly communicating and expressing yourself and that for some reason you are 'less than' and 'inferior' and there is 'something wrong with you'.
Watching the video 'the revenge of the ego' has opened my eyes to what i had allowed myself to do and what I was allowing to exist within myself, which is 'the revenge of the ego'. I noticed myself doubting myself in chats or in talking to people or addressing people, I started to feel as though i have 'nothing to write about' in my blogs and vlogs, i was doubting my expression.
This 'doubt' is in fact only ego, wherein i try to hide myself, within believing that i am 'not worthy' or that 'there is something wrong with me' because of something i have done which is based on my MEMORY of the things that i have done, that i use to judge myself HERE.
When there is hesitation, thoughts, doubt within expressing myself and when i do not spontaneously express myself in the moment, then I am in fact trying to hide the truth of myself because i believe that it is 'bad' and 'unworthy' and that 'others must not find that out about me', and within that i will not stand stable anymore, because i doubt, i use thoughts to 'twist' and 'change' the 'truth of myself', to make me more 'presentable'/'good' in the eyes of others, thus actually lying about myself.
so, within the Desteni group, as beings who walk together in standing as life, it is easy to, within this self judgement and blame, as a form of self punishment, go and extract yourself and isolate yourself completely from the group, this is where the ego has taken its revenge because you are now locked in a prison of self judgement, anger, hate, blame and regret, all alone, believing yourself to not be worthy of life, wherein you have created your own hell.
And because I as the ego that I've allowed myself to become will always use memory as things that i've done to judge myself as 'bad' and apparently 'not worthy of life', because yes, I as the ego that i ve become and lived as my entire life is truly not worthy of life. so, obviously, if i use my memory to define myself HERE then i will forever more be 'unworthy of life'.
I've already allowed the ego to take its revenge on me once within this process, by judging myself within something i did and actually believing myself to 'not be worthy of the group that stand as life' anymore, and then i completely isolated myself, locking myself up in this experience that i was creating and participating in as the ego. I ended up in a very abusive relationship, eventually being full of hatred and resentment towards my partner, completely forgotten the 'connection point' that it all started with, where everything was great and wonderful.
now everything was shit, because apparently i had become 'a better being' in the relationship, better than him, the relationship had become a power game, wherein i tried to take back my power that i thought he had taken from me, being in a constant fight and struggle, not ever experiencing that 'connection point' again. because the ego as the desire to feel powerful and important had fucked it all up.
So, this video assisted me a lot to be aware of myself going into doubt and realizing then that this is the ego wherein i try to hide myself because i judge something that i've done as 'unworthy' and where i don't want to be honest about myself completely because apparently there's something wrong with me because of what i have done.
to give a recent example: i allowed myself to be directed by the desire to watch pornography and my justification for that was a point i was doing self forgiveness on where i saw that my entire life i had been suppressing my 'true desire', which was sex and everything that has to do with sex. i found nothing more interesting and exiting than sex in this world but i allowed myself to suppress this desire, so now i saw this as my 'hearts desire' and so, being 'honest' is apparently 'following my true hearts desire', which is to watch pornography and to have sex. So that was what i did, actually believing myself to be self honest due to defining 'honesty' as 'following my hearts desire' as 'being honest about what i really want'.
not realizing that i was just fucking with myself because i was still just allowing myself to be directed and influenced by a desire, which is not self honesty, because i do not stand absolute, stable, within and as the certainty of who i am as SELF-DIRECTION.
so, when i realized what i had allowed myself to do and exist within myself, i immediately judged myself as 'bad' and felt ashamed about myself, i believed that i had 'dishonored myself as life' and am unworthy of standing as life. which is exactly how i felt when i had created the relationship, that caused me to completely isolate myself. i started experiencing doubt every time i wanted to write a blog or say something to the group or express myself.
so, i allowed my memory of what i had done to completely control me in the moment by being stuck in self judgement and shame, slowly but surely extracting and isolating myself from the group once again as the ego takes its revenge.
this i will allow no more, i will not allow myself to be deception and to try to hide myself or my past or anything of myself. whatever i have done, i will stand here within and as complete self honesty for all to see who i am so that no lies or deception exist. because this is what i stand as: the end of all lies and deception. i will be and am completely self honest within the words i speak and write here, not trying to cover up anything, any part of myself . i will not be and i am not the ego of self isolation as the prison of apparent 'unworthiness'. no matter what i have done, do, and will do, all will be and is exposed HERE as I AM HERE.
If you are ready to face yourself as the deception of the mind as the prison of you and write yourself to freedom, re birthing yourself as a new being that in fact takes responsibility for life and can start acting in a way that will support the establishment of a New system for a New World, then join Desteni I Process and investigate Equal Money.
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