2013 Miley Cyrus and the Justification of Greed

This is a continuation from my previous blog about Miley Cyrus, "3013 Miley Cyrus "We Can't Stop" Satanic Transformation is Our Creation??!" wherein I shined a light on how we use Celebrities, within the stories that we create about them and how they live their lives, where they will be 'loved' by some and 'hated' by others, and where we all will have an opinion about them in one way or the other -- to in fact entertain ourselves and deliberately give away our power to this apparent 'influential'/'powerful'/'wealthy' individual, so as to divert the attention away from ourselves and our personal responsibility with regards to how we are literally creating everything that exist in this world - including the lives of these 'Celebrities' like Miley Cyrus.

Where, in this blog, to share a perspective on the new Trend that is now taking over our Media Landscape and occupying the minds of the 'Populous' - in the form of the Miley Phenomenon and her new 'transformation', which I have already taken on largly in the previous blog from the perspective of how this 'transformation' that is being obsessed over in the Media, actually has got nothing to do with 'Who' 'Miley Cyrus' is as an Individual but rather about who we are as the Consumers of the Drama that is being displayed in our magazines and Gossip-programs/television-shows and how we as human beings have allowed ourselves to become within and as ourselves, and what we accordingly allow to exist in our world and reality, within and as the lives of our 'Celebs' for instance.

In this article "Was Miley in on the joke? Cyrus calls her controversial VMAs performance a 'strategic hot mess' in new MTV documentary" - where Ms. Cyrus 'explains' her overall frowned-upon half-naked and highly suggestive performance at the MTV Video Music Award show in August, within the words:

'I was born to become who I am right now ... I'm at a point in my career where I can be exactly what I want to be, who I want to be.'

'I have this freedom to do whatever I want, because I'm starting as a new artist now,'

 'Every time I do anything, I want to remember, this is what separates me from everybody else.'

 'You're always going to make people talk, you might as well make them talk for two weeks, rather than two seconds.'

What is interesting within this, if one take into consideration how the human mind works, is how these statements that she made is basically Justifications and Explanations around the main point, which is her Performance, her actions and behavior as what she actually physically lived out within this reality, as that which can be seen by All. How the human mind works within this context is how we will use our Words to talk ourselves and others into believing that our actions were in some way 'just' or 'right', to make ourselves feel 'righteous' about whatever it is that we have done.

I mean, here in the case of Miley Cyrus and her Performance at the MTV Awards, she is now being confronted with much criticism from practically all sides around how her performance was not according to 'moral standards' and how, within that, she was/is not setting a proper example for the children around the world that she is standing as a role model for and thus not taking responsibility for her position as an Artist in this world with regards to the influence that she may have on young people's minds.

And so, just as what happens in every single human beings' mind when it is challenged within its Design/function/existence, she will have all these Statements at the ready, which is like a Wall of Words that she's built up around her Persona that serve to protect and Defend her idea of Righteousness (which is inherent to the Identity-System that exist in each and every single Human Being in this world in the exact same way) - like: "I have the right to do whatever I want, because of this or that reason", "this is how I was born", "this is why I do this or that", etcetera.

This is how we use Reasoning to be able to not actually look at and investigate our actions and thus take responsibility for our actions and who we are as a physical expression here in this world - and to thus, very neatly, brush off any criticism, remarks or comments that comes our way with regards to our expression/actions/behavior and just carry on with whatever it was that we are doing -- because, within ourselves, we don't actually want to see, realize or be confronted with the possibility that 'who we are' may be 'wrong', in terms of how this would mean that in some way or form a punishment will ensue, according to how we have all been programmed during childhood within and as the Punishment-Reward System.

This is though not to say that Miley Cyrus was in fact 'wrong' in what she did and how she acted/behaved nor that the Media and other People criticizing her on that behavior were 'right' - I am sharing this perspective here to expose, show and reveal exactly how it is that we as human beings have created and manifested ourselves within and as our Mind in such a way that we have perfected the ability to completely abdicate any form of personal responsibility towards our own actions and words in this World and Reality -- and how we will accordingly allow these Celebrities such as Miley Cyrus, which is actually human beings that stand in a position of Great responsibility towards Humanity, to do exactly the same: Act and Behave in complete and utter Self-Interest, creating a backlash of Consequences that ripples throughout Humanity, and then Justify their actions in the name of 'Free Choice', as the apparent 'freedom' or 'right' to 'Choose' to be Greedy, Selfish, Ignorant, Self-Centered, Abusive, Misleading, Manipulative, Deceptive, etc..

And that is why and how, while we are criticizing, disapproving and condemning Miley's actions, behavior and expression - we aren't actually stopping or preventing it from playing out in any way what so ever --- which implies that we are in fact approving, honoring and applauding what she is doing. Because, what she stands for is our own self-interest, our own greed, ignorance and selfishness that we aren't willing to let go of and that we continue justifying through our words - in exactly the same way as what Miley is doing.

Where then, at the end of the day, the only principle that exists in our World and Reality, according to what we are accepting and allowing to exist, is Self-Interest at the expense of All and Everything that Exist. And where, it's our own words as Sentences that we speak that become the Wall around ourselves in which we have Sentenced ourselves to the Confinement of Ego, and don't even see the Reality around us anymore. I mean, did you know that there are many humans in this world who actually make the statement that the physical reality isn't real and that all that is real is what you create in your mind with your own thoughts and feelings?! That is the extent of how we have isolated ourselves within our Self-Interest, the extent to which we have lost any and all connection with this Real-Live Physical Existence, with each other, with the earth, with nature, with all that is real as all that is HERE, right in front of our very Eyes, every God Damn Day.

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2012 Do we have Sex, or does Sex have us?

"Sex has become the very point, the very purpose, the very reason that exist within a human being to continue existing and living and walking within this world and this reality - it is sex that defines who you are as a human being and what you're doing in this world and this reality, whether having a family, having a job, traveling the world, participating in your religions, spiritualities, movements -- everything is driven by Sex."

"And we're going to show you exactly how and why through and within the 'What is Sex?' interviews - 'what is it that makes and drives human beings to be who they are?', 'what is it within us that is giving us that experience of 'being alive'?'"

~ Sunette Spies


The 'What is Sex?' interviews made by Sunette Spies is absolutely the most thorough, specific and radically eye-opening interviews that I have ever heard about the concept of 'Sex' - which, let's face it, is a concept we just can't seem to get enough of.

She has taken the time and effort to investigate the point of Sex, the entire existence of Sex, through asking the questions that no one in the history of mankind has ever asked - going beyond science and what is generally accepted as apparent 'research' into the 'what is Sex?' question.

She has discovered that Sex is in fact the most important aspect of the human beings' existence and experience in this world, even the very answer to life's most existential questions that our 'great' philosophers have been bending and cracking their heads over for aeons of time.

It is fascinating that Sex plays such a vital (in a very literal sense) role in not only our lives as human beings, but all life on this planet - all is birthed and created through Sex. And yet it seems that all humanity, and specifically those in power in this world which is religion, education and government, have been doing throughout history is to cover up Sex and sexuality, to a certain extent pretending that it doesn't exist and to even take it so far as to judge it as 'bad', 'impure' and 'sinful'.

And through time we have been tacitly accepting this way of living, which is in essence when really having a look at reality quite absurd if not completely insane - because it allowed us to 'evolve' to a point in time where sex and sexuality has become this perverted, 'back-door', secretive part of our reality as reflected in pornography in all its many different 'styles' and 'gradations' that are the 'image and likeness' of what exist in the Human Being's 'secret mind' as what they/we all secretly want/desire/demand.

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What is Sex? - Introduction

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What is Sex? - Part 9

What is Sex? - Part 10

What is Sex - Introducing the Relationship-System - Part 11

What is Sex - The Primary and Sub Relationship-Systems of Mind and Sex - Part 12

What is Sex - Relationship Profiling - Part 13

What is Sex - How we create Relationship Profiles - Part 14


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2011 Sexomania - a New Disorder on the Rise

As read on: http://english.pravda.ru/health/12-12-2011/119924-sexomania-0/

There seems to be a new 'psychological disorder' called 'Sexomania' arising in the human society. This 'disorder' is an 'uncontrollable urge'/desire to act out sexual desires and thoughts within the mind.

Obviously now science as doctors and psychiatrists are going to start investigating this and doing research and then coming up with all sorts of medications and 'treatments' for this apparent 'illness' and 'disorder' that seems to have, just like all other psychological disorders, popped up from nowhere - treating the human 'suffering' from this 'disorder' as a 'victim' of its own mind, of its own desires, thoughts and 'urges', that apparently needs to be suppressed through medication.

What is fascinating about the human society is that human beings in general believe it to be 'normal' that we have 'sexual thoughts, desires and urges' - it is what makes us apparently 'alive' and 'who we are', but then you have all the various 'deviations', 'mutations' and 'disorders' within those sexual desires such as for instance sexomania, necrophilia, pedophilia, exhibitionism, voyeurism, etcetera and also 'conditions' such as Tourettes Syndrome that is most known for the tendency of the person to shout out words relating to sex that is generally judged as 'vulgar' in public places.

So because there are just so many sexual disorders and dysfunctions in the human mind, this should serve as a warning sign to us, showing us that there may be something dysfunctional about our society as the way that we look at and treat sex and sexuality, as how sex and sexuality is being presented to us during our childhood - that is causing these disorders, instead of treating the 'patient' as if there is something wrong with that person and as if that person just got that way because it is apparently 'who they are'.

If one have a look at our current human society within common sense, one might see the distorted way that we deal with sex and sexuality and we may be surprised that there aren't more people with sexual disorders - then again there are also so many things that are happening behind closed doors in people's homes that no one ever gets to see. In our human world, sex and sexuality is not discussed openly, most people feel awkward talking about it and especially parents mostly have a difficult time talking in a 'normal'/relaxed/open way about it with their children, and often then have a tendency to go and make up stories about 'where babies come from' instead of simply telling the truth.

We seem to all desire sex and think about it more oft then naught though no one ever really speaks about it and pretty much everything that has to do with sex gets covered up, shoved under a bed, hidden behind a curtain or locked in a closet. This makes 'sex' and sexuality a 'secret reality', that people participate in in the secret confinements of their mind as thoughts, there where no one else can see. It isn't difficult to see that this can easily become quite perverted as everything gets hidden and locked away - with some more than others as it all depends on how extensive the judgments about sex and sexuality were that you learned from your parents.

So because sex is generally accepted by all of us human beings as something that is, has always been and always will be a 'secret' as personal thoughts and desires within the mind of each person, we accept that human beings think perverse thoughts, in fact we support the perverted nature that sex has become for the human. Obviously this will inevitably result in lots of people 'losing it' because inside themselves they have all these thoughts, feelings and desires of sex and sexuality that is all based on pictures that were automatically downloaded into us from childhood, as sex seems to have taken on this subliminal nature that is like a constant presence in our human society yet not openly talked about - and there will be lots of beings not knowing what to do with these desires and thoughts that seem to be 'bad' as a generally accepted judgment about sex and sexuality in society, so they won't be able to openly express and talk about what is inside of them as they feel like they should do their best to hide and suppress it. Though the problem here is that the mind can only be suppressed to a certain extent and so there are people who are able to live a relatively 'normal' sex-life and then there are those that cannot 'contain' all those hidden thoughts and desires inside themselves and those are the ones that act on it and go out and rape someone or expose themselves or sexually abuse a child, etcetera.

The truth is that we are all collectively responsible for such acts and for the existence of for instance Sexomania - because we all collectively participate in covering up sex and sexuality and making it a difficult topic to talk about as if it is 'bad', and this in turn causes for beings to walk around with this perverted reality inside themselves, believing that they mustn't talk about it or be open about it because it is apparently 'bad'. So, who creates sexual deviancy and disorders? We all do! - this is not the 'fault' or sole responsibility of those that are programmed with this specific mindset of 'the sexually deviated', because something like sexual deviance can only exist within a society that is already completely dysfunctional in term of communication between beings


So the only reason why beings continue acting out these abusive thoughts is because they don't dare to be honest about what exist within themselves because of the fear of being rejected by society, as the fear that we all exist within and as.


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2011 The Heart has Reasons that Reason does not Know

"The Heart has reasons that Reason doesn't know"

Let's look into this statement that is often uttered by humans though not at all within awareness of what they are actually stating - they've just heard it somewhere and decided to use it themselves because it makes for a nice justification for whatever it is you want to justify.

We'll firstly look at when a statement like this is spoken, in what situation - from what i've witnessed in movies for example you would have for instance the situation of a woman falling in love with a man that she thought she disliked. So she disliked him first and now all of a sudden she feels attracted to him - 'for some unexplainable reason'. We'll take this situation as our point of reference within investigating the above statement.

So, the woman dislikes the man, and when she is with her friends she has probably mentioned him a couple of times, talking about all the things about him that makes him apparently 'not to be liked' - this is her opinion about him as her view on 'the world' as 'that man' in particular that she is clearly professing and sharing with her environment - 'I do not like that man'.


Now all of a sudden, she feels a strange attraction towards him - could be because of something he said to her or a look he gave her or a movement he made or some fact about his life that she found out that made her brain work and alter her 'view'/'opinion' as thoughts about him as 'who he apparently is'. Now he is 'likeable' - because she now feels that she likes him.

This means however that the opinions and views about this man that she was professing to her friends with such apparent righteousness, as if she knows all about him, she knows all about reality - are now false.

And here is where our statement comes in because she now has to give some reason/explanation about how/why all of a sudden her opinions can change just like that - because, doesn't this mean that she didn't know what she was talking about in the first place? Obviously she doesn't want to be exposed as a 'liar' or as someone who is just talking bullshit for the sake of getting attention and feeling important - and so she then utters a line to her friends like 'The Heart has Reasons that Reason does not know', which is supposed to imply that she has 'fallen victim' to 'her heart' (='i like him') that apparently has its own 'will' that can apparently 'overpower' 'reason' (='i don't like him).

In this statement all self responsibility is being abdicated because within herself she actually knows damn well why and how she 'changed her mind' and she knows full well that all the things she said about him was just her ego trying to make itself big, but because she doesn't want to admit that she goes and blames her actions on 'the heart' as if her 'heart' isn't also a part of her, just like her 'reason' - all one and the same. In this way, she can still feel justified and righteous in the nasty statements that she had made about him while also being able to feel good about following her desires in creating a relationship with him.


The fact that statements such as this one exist and that human beings actually speak them and believe them reveals to us the deceptive nature of the human - wherein we will use any line to be able to justify what we did/said so that we may still feel good about ourselves no matter what we do.

This is unacceptable, because the point that we seem to miss in all of this deception is that our unawareness in the words we speak and the things we do has an impact/a consequence on the world that we live in - and opposed to what we've always believed, this is not our personal, private world that is here just for us so that we can personally participate in desires and consume our environment. We are all here, on this one planet - therefore it is imperative that we all take equal responsibility for it.

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2011 The Bubble of Belgium

Belgium is one of the smallest countries in the World, but also one of the richest. Existing in Belgium is, compared to existing in the rest of the world, like living in ‘The Promised Land’. We have, compared to the rest of the world, an almost perfect social security and healthcare system.

Belgium is a ‘social system’ wherein pretty much everyone is taken care of, no one is left behind, we try our best to help everyone and to give everyone a chance at ‘a good life’.

As a child we often hear from our parents and environment that we should ‘count our lucky stars’ that we were born in Belgium when we see the atrocities of what is happening in the rest of the world. And we do feel lucky, and we do ‘count our lucky stars’. In a way we do see what is happening in the rest of the world, and we do realize that Belgium is the land of milk and honey in this world, and that is why we try to protect and defend ourselves, we try to protect our luck and wealth as much as we can, because we really are ‘lucky’ for having been born in Belgium, it could have been different.

Living in Belgium means being blinded from reality, because reality is not ‘perfect’, reality is not ‘just’ or ‘fair’, as the values that the Belgium system tries to uphold. But we literally don’t see that, somewhere in our minds we know that other countries aren’t doing so well because its what we see on tv and read about in newspapers, but we don’t actually REALIZE it, because we live in the ‘bubble of Belgium’ - ‘bel’ is the Dutch word for ‘bubble’, and ‘coincidentally’ our national monument is in fact made up of bubbles (see photo above).

As if we are a little separate universe, as this tiny country, literally, a ‘bubble’, completely fenced off, separate from ‘the rest of the world’. The rest of the World is but a distant reality that doesnt even seem ‘real’, it is something that we see on the news or read about in the papers once in a while, but we dont realize what a hell hole this World actually is because we ourselves are not actually experiencing it. For us, everything is ‘good’, and we live our lives based and founded on this idea and belief that ‘all is good’, because that is the system that we live in, and we truly don’t see beyond this system, because our little bubble reality is ‘good’.

And statements like ‘we should count our Lucky stars…’ are in fact nothing but a protection/defence of our little rich country, it is a justification for the existence of Belgium as an exception to the rule. And we know this, we know that Belgium, with its ‘social system’ wherein every person is cared for, is an exception to the rule and we don’t even consider what this implies!

Because if Belgium, as one of the smallest countries in the world, is also one of the richest, then there must be something seriously wrong with this world. This means that only the select, small group of people that just happen to live in Belgium (and a few other countries) have a chance at happiness, a chance at wealth, a chance at a ‘dignified life’. This is absurd!! And why did we never ask questions about this point? Because of justifying statements such as ‘we should count our Lucky stars…’.

Instead of realizing that we shouldnt feel ‘lucky’ about this, we should feel ashamed. We should be ashamed that a country like Belgium even exists, with a population of people that live in decadence, compared to the rest of the World, and that are completely oblivious and unaware of the actual reality of this world. Because we’ve been so pampered, poor things, there is a safety net everywhere, all around us a ‘social security’. There is so many institutions that ensure that it is almost impossible for the Belgian citizen to become poor. We are pampered to such an extent that we have pampers in our eyes and ears, that cause us to not see reality, we only see ‘the Belgian reality’, wherein everything is ‘fine’ and ‘ok’, wherein we complain and whine about irrelevant shit like splitting up some small villages because of some language barrier, and about losing our ‘cultural heritage’ as ‘the Flemish people’ and about never getting any sun in Belgium. We don’t even realize that all our so called ‘problems’ are completely irrelevant to what other people are experiencing, that didnt have the ‘luck’ of being born in Belgium.

So, Belgian people, fellow citizens, it is about time that we get those pampers out of our eyes and ears and that we start realizing what reality truly is.

Because, why are we human beings, citizens of the WORLD, allowing a country such as Belgium to exist, as a few people in the entire world who get to live in the ‘land of milk and honey’ while the rest of the world is waisting away?

If our life cannot be the norm for every living being on this planet, than it is unacceptable! It is time that we burst the bubble and work together at manifesting/implementing/creating the ‘Promised Land’ for each and every being on this earth unconditionally.

This is no ideology, no dream, no utopia, the only thing that is necessary for this is that we human beings get our heads out of our asses and take a good look around to the world of which we are all citizens, it is time that we give up our selfishness and actually start caring about another as ourselves, unconditionally!!

A person that dares look at the World will no longer justify, will no longer defend and protect the personal wealth, but they will see that something is terribly wrong with this World as what we humans as ‘humanity’ have created and they will look for a solution, no matter what, within and as the realization that this World is simply not worth ‘surviving’ in.

Because, come on, if you were to die and you look back on your life, what will you have done that was actually worth something? If you do not live to bring about a World that is truly best for all beings, than you dont even really exist, because selfishness is not worth existing, and deep down you are aware of this.

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2011 And God created Values

What kind of a God/creator would create a world where such a thing like 'values' and 'norms' and 'rules' exist, as a picture perfect, an ideal image of what you have to 'live up to' and be according to what it means to be 'a good person'.

Our common values (=standard of living) are for instance:

1. marrying someone of the opposite sex
2. having children with that person (preferably 2 or 3)
3. living in a nice house
4. having a car
5. having a good job
6. paying taxes
7. having friends
8. having a loving family
9. having good looks
10. having enough (more than) money
11. etcetera...

all these things are seen as 'good' by pretty much all human beings, it is what is being presented on television as what is 'good' and what it means to be 'a good person' and what is taught by our parents. these values are supported by society in general and by religion (especially the 'family values').

there is nothing 'wrong' with having values or with the existence of values per se, the only problem about this is that these values are not applicable by all human beings unconditionally, not everyone is able to 'fit the profile' of 'being a good person' according to these commonly accepted values and there are consequences to these values that we have collectively been shutting our eyes to. lets have a look at the reality of the existence of values in this world:


1. marrying someone of the opposite sex: there are many people in this reality who simply don't feel attracted to the opposite sex, they cant help it and they wish it wasn't like that for them because they also just want to be 'a good person' and 'fit the profile', but for them that would mean having to live a life of feeling unsatisfied and of suppression of what they actually want. While other people are just 'lucky' that they have 'normal' desires so that they will feel good about marrying someone of the opposite sex.

And what about forced marriages taking place in a lot of poor countries wherein a woman is only seen as 'valuable' to their family if she marries a man because then the family is seen as 'good', in most cases this leads to sexual abuse as the girls are 'given away' at a very young age where they aren't even sexually mature yet.

There are also people who don't look attractive/pretty/physically appealing enough to easily get a partner, they then spend their lives within a constant search for an attractive partner so they fit the ideal image in their minds as what they've learned from this world as who and what they apparently have to be in this world to be 'a good person', always feeling as if there's something wrong with them, which often leads to depression and possibly suicide.

2. having children with that person: there are many women and men who cannot have children because their body is infertile, this leaves them feeling as though there is something 'wrong' with them because they cannot fit the profile of 'being a good person' according to the values that exist in this world about what it means to 'live a good life'.

3. & 4. living in a nice house and having a car: this requires money and lets consider here that more than half of the worlds population doesn't have money due to various circumstances, so apparently all of these people are simply unable to 'live a good life' and 'be a good person'

5. having a good job: in many countries there are simply no jobs available because of poor economy or a government that just doesn't give a shit, and no jobs means no money, no money means no future means no life. these people can go to school, they can work and try all they want but if there are no jobs available in the system, they're fucked.

6. paying taxes: apparently you're a 'good citizen' if you pay your taxes, if you are able to fit into the system of making money and paying your taxes. so all the people with physical/emotional or mental disabilities who live off the social security are being looked down on because they are 'not contributing' thus not being a 'good citizen', when they can't even help their situation.

7. having friends: all for the sake of 'having friends' and 'being sociable/social' we suppress our real expression so we can 'fit in' and be accepted by a group of friends and then we go and do things we regret later because of 'peer pressure', because we believe that we are only 'good' when we have friends

8. having a loving family: and 'sticking by your family' and 'you must always respect your family', etc... is a value that is mostly played out by religion, wherein you are expected to give your power away to your family because apparently you must 'love' your family to be a 'good person' in the eyes of other people, even if your parents abuse you and doesn't truly care about you, this actually causes for a lot of pain because you are just trying your best to be 'good enough' for your parents and just because the parents don't agree with decisions that you made, you feel as though you are a bad person, never realizing that parents are just people that aren't perfect.

9. having good looks: 'beauty' and having good looks are always associated with 'romance' and 'love', because that is what is shown on television, this is the 'picture perfect' that is being presented to us with regards to how our lives must look as a picture. so, if you look 'beautiful' like the people on tv then you are lucky because then you can participate in all the 'nice' and 'good' things of this reality such as relationships and fame, you won't have to make much effort to marry 'a good catch' or to get the things that you want in this world, all because you 'look the part' and you 'fit the profile' of what is being presented in this world as 'how a person/life should be. obviously this causes for a reality that is 'unfair' because the ones who have the looks get everything without any trouble and the ones without the looks have to work much harder to reach/attain any of the 'values' in life.

there are however also consequences to the glorification of good looks, for example where young girls and women are being sexually abused and molested just because they look 'desirable', so they are being desired by men as if they were just a thing/object that can be 'taken'.

10. having (more than) enough money: people without money are looked down upon by those who have money, and those who have lots of money are looked up to. so, 'having money' is a value in this reality, where subconsciously people see people who have money as 'good', we respect and accept them more, we listen more to them, we pay more attention to them and we want to be close to them.

but because of the difference in infrastructure between counties (where some countries have a good social security, education and economic system, and other countries do not) and regions within countries and because of the hierarchy between families that already exist for a long time that caused for 'layers in society' due to heritage, children who are born into this world simply don't get an equal opportunity/chance to earn the money they need to provide for themselves to live/survive.



All of these values are in fact 'invalid' because when you look at the reality of the physical world, they exist in denial of the truth, which is that it is impossible for all people to be able to obtain/reach these values and to 'fit into the profile of being a good person'.
So then why do we keep on living as if these values are real and as if they determine our lives and who we are as a being?

It is because we believe that somehow they were handed to us by God, or whatever it is that you want to call God, the truth is that every single being actually exists within the belief that these values for some reason cannot and must not be questioned by us mortals, because somehow they are 'bigger than us, bigger than you and me', we have all come to accept that this is 'life', that this is 'just the way things are', because it is how the human world has always been as what we have learned from our parents and society. Even if you think you don't believe in God, you must admit that you do believe in these 'values', simply because they were passed down on you by your forefathers as if they were written on some magical, meaningful tablet and therefore they cannot be questioned.

And why can they not be questioned? Because our parents/God told us so.
However if God does not want to be questioned, then doesn't that mean that he has something to hide?
Because if we took the time to look at the reality that is the result of our 'worshiping' of these values, then I find it hard not to question God's intentions.

Why did God create 'values' that aren't unconditionally applicable and obtainable for every living being?
Why did God create such a thing like 'values', that causes people to fight and struggle and compete with others in their life only to be able to be 'good enough' according to the 'values', so that they can feel good about themselves, when in fact turning their own lives into hell because of how they have to suppress themselves as their true expression in order to live according to the values?




It is time we open our eyes and start asking questions about what is real in this reality, because 'God' obviously has no intention of creating a reality that is unconditionally supportive for each and every being and where every living being is valuable. Therefore we must take responsibility to give value to life and to stop trusting in 'God', as it is the only way in which this reality will ever change.



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2011 Childhood - The IIllusion

Feeling inferior or powerless or 'less then' towards my parents is nothing but an illusion.

because when I was a child, I was their 'product', they birthed me, so therefore they were already stronger and more powerful and more 'integrated into this reality' then me, because I was a new being that still had to learn all the skills and I had to grow and become strong like my parents who were already 'adults', having already learned all the skills and grown strong over time that they existed here on earth long before I was born.

So, I was by natural physical design weak and powerless towards my parents, it was a physical given as I was in the newborn body of a child, I was weaker towards my parents in every single way, because I was completely new.

As I grew up, my parents started playing 'power games' with me, wherein they would punish me or yell at me or hit me or try to intimidate me in some way to show me that they are more powerful then me, because it was their objective to in this way make me FEEL 'powerless' and 'inferior' and 'weak' towards them, so that they could FEEL powerful. For example, in moments where they told me that I am dumb for not doing something the right way, or for not working hard enough in school, or when they referred to me as 'just' a kid,... (these are examples of emotional/verbal abuse because statements like this are made to make the child out to be 'not as good as the parent' and are made from the starting point of trying to 'bring the child down')

This whole 'feeling powerful' of a parent over a child is in fact completely absurd because they simply ARE more powerful than the child, in every way, as a natural physical given, but the mind is a funny thing as it creates illusions as energetic reactions within self created conflict as friction. So the parents will participate in energetic reactions within and as conflict/fighting towards the child within their desire to FEEL powerful over the child as the 'power game'. They don't seem to notice, realize or accept the physical reality as how things are simply designed wherein they as parents are by nature as a given fact already more powerful and stronger than the child, so there is no fight because within a fight between parent and child, the child will always naturally lose.

They just want to experience the FEELING of power as an energy within themselves, which is in denial of the physical state of things which is just the way things are, and no feeling is required. so they go and abuse the power that they already naturally have over the child to 'prove' their power over the child and to make the child FEEL powerless so that they could then FEEL powerful, because that's how the 'power game' works, for it is a game of energetic reactions based on belief systems.

The child is programmed to automatically participate within the energetic power games of the parents, so they will immediately copy the energetic reaction of the parent and as it was preporgrammed they will react to the reaction of the parent, by for example feeling powerless when the parent feels powerful.

The child will then want to fight back, in an attempt to 'get their power back' that apparently the parents have taken from them in the energetic power game, though herein the child is also already lost within the illusionary realm of the mind as energy because they don't realize that no matter how much they will try to fight and kick and scream towards the parent, the child will always lose, because it is simply a natural fact, a given, because the child is birthed by the parents so the parent naturally hold all the power.

This is in fact where the feeling of being weak and inferior and powerless comes from that made us humans into apathic beings that believe that we are not really capable of anything substantial, because we all allowed ourselves to be fooled by the mind by participating in this power game with our parents when we were kids, by fighting and resisting our parents not realizing that we were inevitably doomed to fail and lose, thus leaving us feeling like losers in a game that was 'rigged' from the beginning because we never realized and accepted the natural physical reality.

If we had actually realized and accepted the physical reality we would have seen that there exist no real fight/battle/struggle in the first place because it is naturally designed that our parents will always win.

Therefore it is important for all of us human beings to realize the physical reality, to start seeing and accepting what is real within common sense instead of playing these mindgames that are all a set up to make us believe and feel that we are weak and powerless because we believed it to be real by denying what is actually real as what is HERE as how reality is designed.





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2011 The pity construct – or how helping turned this World into hell

The reason that pity exists, as that which makes us feel the desire within ourselves to ‘care for’ and ‘look after’ someone, indicates that ‘caring for’ and ‘looking after’ is a very conditional experience, because we don’t unconditionally care for all that exist, for existence, in every moment one and equal. We only care for those who are ‘helpless’/’powerless’/’weak’.

This implies that we will wait until beings are in fact in a helpless, powerless and weak position before we start caring about them, until we feel/experience a reaction inside ourselves of 'pity' and ‘notice’ them. Just look at all those people in Africa that we see on the news, that are skin over bones with a pleading/begging look in their eyes saying ‘please, help us!!!’, en then us ‘good citizens’ react immediately and think ‘oh how bad, we must raise money fast to help them because this cannot continue!’

But we never did anything to prevent this situation, we’ve only waited until it was too late. Why? Because we don’t actually really care about another, meaning – we don’t care about the consequences of our own actions in and onto the rest of the world. And so we only notice the shit that we’ve created when it is too late and when for example an entire continent is starving to death.

And then still we do not see that this is our creation because we are not aware of the principle of ‘cause and effect’ within everything we do within the realization that we exist in/on a round planet, wherein everything has an influence/impact on everything, something moves and the rest has to move with it ( so everything we do here, has an impact on the other side of the planet, and this influence has only been enhanced by the global network between countries as the ‘international trade’ and agreements), no, we will then feel ‘pity’, we will want to ‘help’, pinning them only further on/into the ‘hell’ they were already in because we don’t want to do anything about the cause of this problem, we do not want to stop ourselves within the creation and cause of the problem because that is ourselves, and that means that we actually seriously don’t give a shit about another living being.

The whole construct of a baby that looks completely helpless, powerless and weak, that triggers the reaction of pity within us that will then make us want to take care of the baby, plays perfectly into the fact that the human being is in reality a very selfish being, that does not naturally care for/about another, but that needs a certain motivation, like ‘pity’ as an energetic reaction to seeing a certain situation like a baby that is crying, a dog howling, a cat meowing or a human in Africa that is skin over bone with a stomach- and bowel infection, to apparently ‘care’.

If you are ready to start caring for real and to stand as the living ‘caretaker’ of all life equal and one, taking responsibility for your own actions and becoming aware of your own existence, then

visit:

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2011 experiencing hate during childhood

i am at the moment 24 years old and looking back on my childhood, even my adolescent years, i don't seem to remember much about how i experienced myself, about my feelings and emotions.

like i suppressed all of it. i remember that it was not pleasant at all. i felt mostly fear of other people, even of my friends. and especially of my parents and grandparents. a fear that caused me to become just like them.
but hate was definitely there as well, and lots of it, and very very extensively so.
like an enormous hate towards my parents when they had punished me or forced me into doing something that i didn't want to do. for example when they made me sit at the dinner table and i could not leave until my plate was empty, until i had eaten everything. i was especially angry because they did not seem to see who i was, they didn't see me at all. they seemed to think that everything they were doing was in some way 'for my own good', but they treated me like i was a slave, like i was worth nothing. my words were meaningless to them unless i spoke what they wanted to hear.

the hate i experienced was especially in this context of not being heard or seen, and my parents just playing their power game over me, abusing their power, acting all righteous. and i was ignored, i did not really exist, i was but a slave, an inferior being, 'just a child'. i remember being so full of absolute hate that i would want to hurt myself because there was no other way that i could express that hate, i could not yell at my parents, i could not do anything, so i took it out on myself. i hated myself inside, i wallowed in absolute hate, that would just take over my entire being.

the hate was like an absolute anger within myself, i could feel it literally boiling inside of me.
i've never experienced such anger like when i was a kid, it s an anger because i felt stuck, trapped, no way to go, no way of actually expressing myself and my parents would often put me in situations where i was treated like a prisoner, not respected for what i had to say or what i wanted or didn't want, i only had to do as they told me and there was no way out of it.

and they didn't seem to notice or care what it was like for me, they didn't place themselves in my shoes.

as i grew up, i seemed to have pushed this anger and hate far away in myself by hiding it behind 'positivity' and 'friendliness' and 'kindness' and 'politeness' as what my parents told/taught me and which is also exactly what my parents did, so in this i became just like them, just a liar, hiding the true experience that is hell as pure anger/hate/spitefulness deep inside myself.

because i never took responsibility for this anger inside of me, i kept on blaming my parents inside of myself, which was my excuse and justification for the ego/lie that i had become. apparently now i had come to 'love my parents', looking back on my childhood full of rebellion and anger and hate, as if it was just the 'silliness of a child', thus looking down on myself as a kid, as if i am now 'better', a 'grown up'/adult.

but all i really did was 'insert' myself into the money system wherein i have to survive, i now have to work, earn money and participate in the system of adults. and the way i found and learned from my parents to easily get what i want from the system is to lie about myself, to put on a mask that is positive, good and right and friendly and polite, because then people will accept me and like me and then they will want to help me survive.

and i ve come to believe this lie that i m selling of myself, i ve come to believe that this is who i truly am, when actually there is this dark pit of hell that is all those shit experiences of anger, hate, fear that is still very much inside of me that even cause me to fear myself, to want to escape/run from myself.

so now that i am in the process of forgiving myself for who i have allowed myself to become as the mind, as the lie, i have to face that pit inside of me that i ve been covering up for so long. there is no running/hiding/escaping anymore.

i must realize me in all ways, otherwise i will never be free. i must set myself free and forgive myself in all ways, because i have created hell for myself, because i allowed anger and hate and fear to exist within myself, so therefore i must stop it. no one else will.

within applying self forgiveness, i have realized my responsibility towards all that i have ever experienced in myself. it was never my parents fault, because, just like they did not place themselves in my shoes, i did not place myself in theirs, i just reacted to them. i did not see that they were once children that grew up in an environment just like mine/me and that who/how they are expressing themselves towards me is a result of how they allowed themselves to be influenced by their parents. i did not realize that how they express themselves towards me, has got nothing to do with me personally, because it is THEIR expression, they see me as 'a child' and how they express themselves towards me as 'a child' in their world, only shows how they react to and judge the child within themselves, as a result of how their parents reacted to and judged them when they were children.

so me, i am nothing but a link in a chain, just another generation, so if i allow myself to react to my parents and blame them for my reactions/experiences, i will only end up just like them, just another result generation after generation of abuse, and from there i will only end up abusing my own children as what my parents did unto me and what their parents did unto them, and so forth.



If you are ready to face yourself as the deception of the mind and stop yourself as only a generation within a chain of generations generating abuse and write yourself to freedom, re birthing yourself as a new being that in fact takes responsibility for life and can start acting in a way that will support the establishment of a New system for a New World, then join Desteni I Process and investigate Equal Money.

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