Dr. Wayne Dyer Watch your Words!

"Your past history and all of your hurts are no longer here in your physical reality. Don't allow them to be here in your mind, muddying your present moments. Your life is like a play with several acts. Some of the characters who enter have short roles to play, others, much longer. But all are necessary, otherwise they wouldn't be in the play. Embrace them all, and move on to the next act." ~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer is an internationally renowned author and speaker in the field of self-development, and this is a statement that I have plucked off his Facebook page, where he frequently posts random statements such as this one - which are then supported by thousands of comments of people that follow his posts, that are mostly all along the lines of "I appreciate you sharing your wisdom with me and all others...know you inspire me because what you say makes sense,,,we all need sense in our life...thanks", "Just like as you read my feelings :)", "Wow! Great words of wisdom! I ♥ u", etc... to quote but a few of the many words of praise to our good doctor Dyer that so skillfully seems to be able to pluck our heartstrings and make us feel as though his words are the 'one and only truth'.

Though I am going to take this blog and this time to take but one random quote from him and actually investigate what he said in his words and what his words actually imply - because there is a thing that I have learned about the human mind, which is that we will never listen to the words of a song when somehow the tune has struck an 'inner cord' that make us feel all warm and fuzzy inside, resulting in the human singing the words over and over again like a robot, just for the sake of how the tune makes us feel, slowly but surely brainwashing itself into living out these words without ever even noticing a thing.

If one were to scratch the surface of the above quote by Dr. Dyer, one would see that most likely the reason why so many like to believe that he is 'telling the truth' and is 'spreading wisdom' that makes us feel so good inside, is because within his words he offers a nice excuse for us to not take any responsibility for ourselves.


Have a look at what he says after mentioning what so many beings struggle with, which is themselves, their past, their history, their memories of pain, loss, sadness, anger, regret, shame and fear:

"Your life is like a play with several acts. Some of the characters who enter have short roles to play, others, much longer. But all are necessary, otherwise they wouldn't be in the play. Embrace them all, and move on to the next act."

Translated, this is the same as saying:

"You are in no way responsible for the mess that you have made of yourself and your life, of the feelings and emotions you experience within yourself and the regret that you experience - so for the sake of bullshitting yourself into believing that, just tell yourself that there is a 'divine force' that is directing your life, you are here to just 'enjoy the ride' and obviously you should never question why there has to be a 'ride' in the first place or why you should even be directed instead of you directing you. Never ever question yourself or this reality.

Never stop within yourself and face what you have created in your life - just 'turn the page' as if nothing happened and make yourself believe that 'if you just close your eyes, it isn't there anymore' as if that isn't the exact same infantile reasoning that we so often make fun of when we see a baby doing that. Remain a slave of your own life, directed by the 'characters' and 'acts' that apparently get sent your way, blaming God for not taking care of your life when things are not going according to how you want the 'movie' of your life to go - but hey, when you're buying Dr. Dyers books and going to his seminars, that must mean that you've got enough money to support the illusion that God loves you and that your life is a Hollywood movie with you as the star."


Consider for a moment that he is a 'Doctor', a 'Phd.', a 'counselor', someone that has a degree in 'telling people what is going on here', and all that he is clearly doing is telling people what they like to hear instead of what they need to hear. In no way is this taking any responsibility for anything but his own wallet, which, lets face it, is the only thing all and any doctors have ever really been doing. There has never been anyone in this world, and especially not those that are waving their certificates, degrees and Phd.'s around as apparent 'proof' of the value of their words, that has ever taken any responsibility for anything - otherwise we would not be so easily played by pretty words like this as we would not be so desperate to feel good about ourselves and this world. Because the truth is that there is nothing 'good' about this world. So no wonder that the ones who make the most money in this world are the ones who are the best at packaging and selling us the lie, the deception of 'positive feelings'.



Investigate Desteni if you are ready to stop bullshitting yourself with 'wise words' that have no real value what so ever and that only aim to further support the illusion that the wealthy of this world desire to get lost in - This world is not a Hollywood movie!!! Your life isn't either and the sooner you realize that all the beings in this reality begging for our attention daily are not 'characters' but actual beings just like you and me, the sooner we can stand up and direct this world to become a place where all can enjoy life unconditionally.

2012 "Love is Undefinable", How Convenient

"Love is Undefinable" "Love is a many splendid thing" "Love is all you need" "Love is what makes life worth living" "Love is a feeling"

These are but a few statements that are frequently made about 'love' and what 'love' apparently is in 'life'. However, has anyone of the spiritual masters, or guru's that spend their time telling everyone else just how wonderful 'love' is and how we all 'need love to live' and 'enrich our lives' ever actually explained what love is exactly? Nope, of course not. Because love, according to them, is to be worshiped like God. And love, just like God, works in mysterious ways and cannot, nay, must not be defined or depicted as it is 'a feeling' and is thus only real to the one that 'opens up to the possibility that love/God is real'.

The reason why I would even mention this to be an issue and a problem in this world - is because so many people become enchanted with the apparent 'greatness' and 'healing power' of 'love', so many people are absolutely convinced that 'love will save the world', 'love will end all hate', 'love will end all wars', 'love is what will fix this world and create a heaven for all' - all we have to do is trust in 'love'. Though what does prove itself to be quite problematic is this whole 'love is undefined/undefinable' point that seems to be inherent to the 'love-religion'. Because in all practicality, how will love practically and effectively be able to 'save the world and ourselves' and 'create heaven on earth'? Because if you say that 'love is the answer/solution', then you'd have to be more concise and concrete than to simply claim love to be 'undefinable' and assume that this vague description of an inner experience will do to in fact fix this world.

Love being undefinable is however the very essence of 'love', it is the cause of its very appealing power for many human beings - just like 'God' gets his appeal through being 'mysterious' and 'undefined', 'everywhere and all the time' and 'omnipresent' yet not concrete or actually part of the physical reality and therefore not actually ever to be truly understood. This is obviously the very reason why human beings would choose to believe in God in the first place, because of course if he were simply HERE as a part of the physical reality that we can touch and see, than we wouldn't have to BELIEVE in him in the first place, would we?

And the same goes for love - we choose to believe in love because it is not HERE and because the concept of there being 'more than what is here as the physical reality of ourselves' appeals to our curiosity and desire for sensation. And the reason why the spiritual leaders and guru's that so whole-heatedly present Love as 'the ultimate answer' would claim that love is unquestionably 'undefinable', is because if Love were to be defined then they'd lose their appeal, they'd lose their piggy bank as their apparently 'special, magical message' that so many feel enchanted by and curious towards because it offers them an excuse to participate within the belief that there is 'more to life' than their own lives, than their presence here in this physical reality.

If we have a look at reality and the actual consequences of this apparently glorious 'message of love' that is being spread around by so many 'self-help guru's', than we can see that the only thing that this 'undefinable love' is doing at the moment is to sedate people in their personal 'path' in search for 'love', swept off their feet by this 'higher experience' of love as 'the undefined', completely lost to the actual reality because they chose to believe in a concept that is per definition not real and can never be real as it is already defined as being 'undefined'. This creates quite a problem because beings then become lost within this realm of 'the undefinable inner experiences of love' of which they believe that they 'have found the answer', yet they cannot explain, define or pinpoint just how or why love is the answer exactly, or how love will in fact, effectively change the world - because as we established, 'love is undefined by its very definition'. And there you have it, the marvel of BELIEF and the reason why human beings will continuously choose this belief and their feelings over common sense and what is really HERE, because beliefs and feelings is like the snake that eats its own tale that keeps beings searching for 'the undefined' out of curiosity, never realizing that 'the undefined' will never be found/defined as it is 'undefined' per definition.

Would it not make more sense though that for there to be a real effective answer to this 'defined world/reality' that is the physical reality, as that which we can touch and see, that is HERE and that follows certain laws and orders - this answer must also be defined, meaning, practical and physically lived/liveable. Therefore if we are going to claim that 'love is the answer', we would have to make damn sure that this 'love' will eventually become physically visible. Though of course, here those that profess love as undefinable also have an answer ready, and that is that 'this reality is energy', thus it is not real and the only thing that is 'real' is the undefinable experiences such as love within ourselves - I'd say that is the perfect tool to keep beings in an absolutely passive state and have them never actually move themselves within this reality because they trust that 'their energetic inner state' will fix everything like magic, quite similar to how television has effectively brainwashed us into constructing an imaginary world within ourselves wherein we can feel like the hero, though never actually doing anything that makes any difference in this world because we are so caught up with these inner 'movements of energetic experiences' that we don't even seem to notice that we aren't actually doing anything in real life, in the physical reality that is HERE, we've just become slaves to our own minds as 'the world where everything is possible', though nevertheless a world that is completely submitted to the physical human body and the physical reality.

If 'love' is ever to be real and to be the 'answer' for us to fix this world and clean up the mess that we as humanity have created here in this physical existence - then we're going to have to be specific in defining, explaining and describing what 'love' is and especially who we are when we say such statements as 'I am love' - because to say that 'I am love' and then claim that 'love is undefinable', is nothing but a cop-out to not in fact make a statement of yourself in this reality and to not really stand for anything at all.

So, then what would love be as an actual living statement of self? How can we make 'love' into an actual real living experience that is the expression of this physical reality and not just a personal inner energetic experience that is based on faith, assumptions and belief? To live as the statement of 'I am love' is for instance to make sure that all life may exist within and as this statement and to do whatever it takes to get this entire reality as all that exists here, to change according to who self is as what is best for all. Because after all, what is best for me, should obviously be what is best for all life, therefore why shouldn't I then support and create a world wherein all life-forms may live according to what is best. If I am not willing to give my life for this, than I cannot claim to be 'love' - or then that means that my personal definition of 'love' is completely screwed up and nothing but selfishness.


This is why it is important that we find out the words that we live and are willing to live/exist as - and that we make sure that each and every word that we define ourselves according to is in fact clearly understood within what it practically means to live these definitions in this world, so as to not create unnecessary and unpleasant consequences for ourselves.


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2011 And God created Values

What kind of a God/creator would create a world where such a thing like 'values' and 'norms' and 'rules' exist, as a picture perfect, an ideal image of what you have to 'live up to' and be according to what it means to be 'a good person'.

Our common values (=standard of living) are for instance:

1. marrying someone of the opposite sex
2. having children with that person (preferably 2 or 3)
3. living in a nice house
4. having a car
5. having a good job
6. paying taxes
7. having friends
8. having a loving family
9. having good looks
10. having enough (more than) money
11. etcetera...

all these things are seen as 'good' by pretty much all human beings, it is what is being presented on television as what is 'good' and what it means to be 'a good person' and what is taught by our parents. these values are supported by society in general and by religion (especially the 'family values').

there is nothing 'wrong' with having values or with the existence of values per se, the only problem about this is that these values are not applicable by all human beings unconditionally, not everyone is able to 'fit the profile' of 'being a good person' according to these commonly accepted values and there are consequences to these values that we have collectively been shutting our eyes to. lets have a look at the reality of the existence of values in this world:


1. marrying someone of the opposite sex: there are many people in this reality who simply don't feel attracted to the opposite sex, they cant help it and they wish it wasn't like that for them because they also just want to be 'a good person' and 'fit the profile', but for them that would mean having to live a life of feeling unsatisfied and of suppression of what they actually want. While other people are just 'lucky' that they have 'normal' desires so that they will feel good about marrying someone of the opposite sex.

And what about forced marriages taking place in a lot of poor countries wherein a woman is only seen as 'valuable' to their family if she marries a man because then the family is seen as 'good', in most cases this leads to sexual abuse as the girls are 'given away' at a very young age where they aren't even sexually mature yet.

There are also people who don't look attractive/pretty/physically appealing enough to easily get a partner, they then spend their lives within a constant search for an attractive partner so they fit the ideal image in their minds as what they've learned from this world as who and what they apparently have to be in this world to be 'a good person', always feeling as if there's something wrong with them, which often leads to depression and possibly suicide.

2. having children with that person: there are many women and men who cannot have children because their body is infertile, this leaves them feeling as though there is something 'wrong' with them because they cannot fit the profile of 'being a good person' according to the values that exist in this world about what it means to 'live a good life'.

3. & 4. living in a nice house and having a car: this requires money and lets consider here that more than half of the worlds population doesn't have money due to various circumstances, so apparently all of these people are simply unable to 'live a good life' and 'be a good person'

5. having a good job: in many countries there are simply no jobs available because of poor economy or a government that just doesn't give a shit, and no jobs means no money, no money means no future means no life. these people can go to school, they can work and try all they want but if there are no jobs available in the system, they're fucked.

6. paying taxes: apparently you're a 'good citizen' if you pay your taxes, if you are able to fit into the system of making money and paying your taxes. so all the people with physical/emotional or mental disabilities who live off the social security are being looked down on because they are 'not contributing' thus not being a 'good citizen', when they can't even help their situation.

7. having friends: all for the sake of 'having friends' and 'being sociable/social' we suppress our real expression so we can 'fit in' and be accepted by a group of friends and then we go and do things we regret later because of 'peer pressure', because we believe that we are only 'good' when we have friends

8. having a loving family: and 'sticking by your family' and 'you must always respect your family', etc... is a value that is mostly played out by religion, wherein you are expected to give your power away to your family because apparently you must 'love' your family to be a 'good person' in the eyes of other people, even if your parents abuse you and doesn't truly care about you, this actually causes for a lot of pain because you are just trying your best to be 'good enough' for your parents and just because the parents don't agree with decisions that you made, you feel as though you are a bad person, never realizing that parents are just people that aren't perfect.

9. having good looks: 'beauty' and having good looks are always associated with 'romance' and 'love', because that is what is shown on television, this is the 'picture perfect' that is being presented to us with regards to how our lives must look as a picture. so, if you look 'beautiful' like the people on tv then you are lucky because then you can participate in all the 'nice' and 'good' things of this reality such as relationships and fame, you won't have to make much effort to marry 'a good catch' or to get the things that you want in this world, all because you 'look the part' and you 'fit the profile' of what is being presented in this world as 'how a person/life should be. obviously this causes for a reality that is 'unfair' because the ones who have the looks get everything without any trouble and the ones without the looks have to work much harder to reach/attain any of the 'values' in life.

there are however also consequences to the glorification of good looks, for example where young girls and women are being sexually abused and molested just because they look 'desirable', so they are being desired by men as if they were just a thing/object that can be 'taken'.

10. having (more than) enough money: people without money are looked down upon by those who have money, and those who have lots of money are looked up to. so, 'having money' is a value in this reality, where subconsciously people see people who have money as 'good', we respect and accept them more, we listen more to them, we pay more attention to them and we want to be close to them.

but because of the difference in infrastructure between counties (where some countries have a good social security, education and economic system, and other countries do not) and regions within countries and because of the hierarchy between families that already exist for a long time that caused for 'layers in society' due to heritage, children who are born into this world simply don't get an equal opportunity/chance to earn the money they need to provide for themselves to live/survive.



All of these values are in fact 'invalid' because when you look at the reality of the physical world, they exist in denial of the truth, which is that it is impossible for all people to be able to obtain/reach these values and to 'fit into the profile of being a good person'.
So then why do we keep on living as if these values are real and as if they determine our lives and who we are as a being?

It is because we believe that somehow they were handed to us by God, or whatever it is that you want to call God, the truth is that every single being actually exists within the belief that these values for some reason cannot and must not be questioned by us mortals, because somehow they are 'bigger than us, bigger than you and me', we have all come to accept that this is 'life', that this is 'just the way things are', because it is how the human world has always been as what we have learned from our parents and society. Even if you think you don't believe in God, you must admit that you do believe in these 'values', simply because they were passed down on you by your forefathers as if they were written on some magical, meaningful tablet and therefore they cannot be questioned.

And why can they not be questioned? Because our parents/God told us so.
However if God does not want to be questioned, then doesn't that mean that he has something to hide?
Because if we took the time to look at the reality that is the result of our 'worshiping' of these values, then I find it hard not to question God's intentions.

Why did God create 'values' that aren't unconditionally applicable and obtainable for every living being?
Why did God create such a thing like 'values', that causes people to fight and struggle and compete with others in their life only to be able to be 'good enough' according to the 'values', so that they can feel good about themselves, when in fact turning their own lives into hell because of how they have to suppress themselves as their true expression in order to live according to the values?




It is time we open our eyes and start asking questions about what is real in this reality, because 'God' obviously has no intention of creating a reality that is unconditionally supportive for each and every being and where every living being is valuable. Therefore we must take responsibility to give value to life and to stop trusting in 'God', as it is the only way in which this reality will ever change.



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