2012 The Inalterable law of love and hate

Hatred does not cease by hatred at any time; it ceases by love. This is an inalterable law.
~ Buddha

We all know Buddha as that really good guy who has all of that insightfull, intelligent and wise stuff to say to for a moment lift us up with his words that make us consider that the world could be a better place. He is generally seen, considered and praised to be one of the 'do-gooders' in this world, as one of the very very very few people who seem to have a clue of who they are and what is real.

So, there he sits in lotus position, spreading out his wise words to those who will hear them, filled with love, compassion, understanding, peace, happiness and wisdom as apparently the living example of how each human being should be.

What is strickingly interesting though is that this point of there existing 'a Buddha' as 'the chosen one' that is destined by fate to be 'the wise guy' among men is accepted and seen as apparently 'normal' - when really we should be asking ourselves "why the hell are we so damn ignorant and evil - that we would have such a being existing here who seems to only exist here to show the rest of us how we will never be like him because the very definition of being 'the Buddha' implies that you'd first have to walk through multiple lifetimes, learning many lessons, to eventually reïncarnate as 'the one' in the billion who gets to finally after all that time realize who he really is as his apparent 'inner wisdom'?"

Yet, this is obviously never questioned or looked at because it is something that we have simply come to accept as 'normal' and 'just the way reality is' - which is in fact this belief of there being some 'divine plan' from some 'divine being' that apparently invisibly rules the earth and has 'divine reasons' for everything that exist here, as a convenient excuse for us to never truly have a look at what is really going on in this world and to rather simply accept everything as how it is presented to us.

let's take this quote here for example, as one of the many apparently wise, insightful, profound and great quotes made by 'the great' Buddha that never get questioned:

Hatred does not cease by hatred at any time; it ceases by love. This is an inalterable law.

This is one of those typical statements that then eventually end up on a wall in someones home to apparently represent that they care about the world because Buddha cares about the world and they care about what Buddha has to say - and also mostly because it is words that make us feel somehow good inside of ourselves as it justifies the love that we experience inside - because now we can believe that we are making this world a better place by loving rather than hating, blaming everything that goes wrong in the world on those that 'carry hate in their hearts' which is basically those in power making all the decisions at the moment and creating wars.

Let us however, if only for the sake of arguement, have a closer look at the practical nature of this quote - because it is rather interesting that there are so many beings in this world who claim to have love in their hearts, so many religious people, Guru's, spiritual healers and leaders and their followers, though the destruction of earth, the animal kingdom and ourselves among each other is still going on even more than ever. How is this even possible with so much love here today to counter all the 'hate' - war should have been erradicated by now.

so, why is it still here? - could it be that maybe what the Buddha is professing and sending out into the world is only pretty words that sound nice at first glance, though not practically liveable in this reality when investigated further?

Because isn't love just the opposite polarity point of hate in the first place? - therefore doesn't that mean that love cannot even exist if hate doesn't exist, as they are both two sides of the same coin as this energetic game that human beings play to occupy themselves with, pretending as if they don't know what they're doing?

In reality love will never cease hate, love only perpetuates it because 'love' in essence is the energy that balances out the energy of 'hate' like the positive and the negative end of a battery that need each other to keep the energy going - and aren't we humans but 'energetic entities' that obviously require this battery-type experience within ourselves as a positive and a negative polarity construct that generate that energy?

Furthermore - to actually end wars, starvation, poverty, abuse, murder, rape and all other atrocities in this world as the physical manifestations that represent the hate that exist in mankind, no energetic experience of 'love' is required, only common sense consideration of what is acceptable and what not in existence, and to then direct this reality accordingly.

Yet, we don't seem to be willing to in fact direct this world to what is best for all living beings, to be the 'love made visible' as physical action - we only want to experience love as an invisible experience inside ourselves that makes us believe and feel as though there's something 'more' and 'special' to life, when it seems to be just that feeling that makes us not move ourselves and create a world that is best for all in fact. It is the energetic experience of love that numbs us, that blinds us, that keeps us in a bubble of personal experience and cause us to not actually see what this world is really about.


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2012 why I heard to the Desteni Message

Desteni and their message can create much controversy in the realms of the internet, especially back when they had all their video's of Sunette as the interdimensional portal 'channeling' all conceivable beings in existence on youtube - these channels have been taken down by youtube because they were being flagged by beings who felt that the Desteni message wasn't 'resonating' with them, they felt threatened in some way - so, like I said, the Desteni message has created some controversy. Mainly because it is such an unusual message, that is brought in an unusual way - and human beings feel threatened by everything that is unusual, which we then all too automatically judge as 'weird', 'strange' and 'freaky', all words that we have assigned a negative emotional charge, so based on these judgments we will often decide that something is 'bad' and 'negative', not ever really fully understanding what is being presented to us because we're not really willing to investigate with an open mind.

This is something that I have noticed when I brought up Desteni in a conversation with friends and family and in the way that people sometimes react to the Desteni message as what those who are walking the Desteni process of self-change are expressing to the world. So what made me then hear the Desteni message? How come the Desteni message 'resonated' with me and not with many others?

The reason I ask myself this question is because if one were to fully investigate what Desteni is about and apply the tools that is being presented such as self forgiveness, self honesty and self-corrective application, one would come to the realization that what Desteni shares is the most important message that has ever been expressed in this reality - a message that would save us all, as something that we as all of humanity have been waiting for since the dawn of man. They present the ultimate solution to this world, a solution that is based on actual real life investigation and application of these tools that has proven its effectiveness through time and that has been brought forth by the people behind Desteni.

Looking back at when I discovered Desteni and the 'state of mind' that I was in that made me 'susceptible' to their message - I can say that I was in a general feeling of lostness, despair even, I felt like I had no sense of direction. Ever since I got out of high school I had been attempting to 'make something of my life' as what was apparently expected of me by my family and society, though all of my attempts ended up in me basically giving up within this feeling that I simply don't see the point. I didn't see the point of why I had to do all these things with my life, what is the purpose of life anyway.

this experience within myself, a sense of dissatisfaction with my life and not really knowing fully why or how I got to that point of feeling like I did, led me to start investigating into spirituality as the feeling that there must be something 'more' to life than what I was experiencing, a reason behind it all that I must have always been missing. I read books, I meditated, went to a meditation course (Vipassana), tried visualization, got into 'The Secret' (Law of Attraction) and eventually started doing research on the internet about various topics that seemed to go into the 'hidden reality of this world' like all the conspiracy theories, unexplained events, the paranormal, the supernatural, UFO's, cropcircles, etcetera in which I could dig deeper and deeper and deeper yet it never seemed to end. And I was just looking for something, some kind of answer, some kind of purpose, anything - because I had this experience within myself on not understanding who I am or what life is or why I am here.

And even though I meditated and participated in all the spiritual beliefs, I still didn't quite 'get it' - as to the 'why?' of everything, of this entire reality. Then I came across a video of Sunette 'portalling' Hitler from the afterlife - and the first thing that struck me was that this was definitely unlike anything I had ever come across. It's funny that even though here was this girl who could apparently leave her body completely and Hitler as a demon from the 'interdimensional existence' could step into her body entirely and speak to us on this youtube channel, as something that is in fact totally out of the ordinary - I still felt like this was the most real, honest and direct expression that I had ever seen/heard, maybe even in my entire life.

I immediately started investigating the Desteni material and found that their message was exactly what I had been looking for - because what they shared was not just one of many spiritual messages of love and light and divinity that is mostly based on belief, hope and pretty words, which had only seemed to be instilling this inner confusion only further. What they presented was an actual practical solution, a tool to work with, which is self forgiveness and writing to freedom - that anyone could apply for themselves to truly find out who self is. the only necessity was for me to find out for myself whether or not what they shared was real or not by applying the tools. And so I did - I started applying self forgiveness and I started writing myself to freedom and instantly I could see, within applying myself, that this 'works'.

I saw that this was the answer that I had always been looking for, the only answer that could ever be real - which was where I would, rather than meditating to some energy based on a belief or placing my hopes and expectations for a better life in the hands of some Guru, master or guide and their message of bliss and love, learn to take responsibility for myself and face myself as who I am completely. This is something that I have in some way always known to be the answer to 'life' as who I am though what had always been missing was the practical tools to do this - and these tools is what I found at Desteni.

Desteni did not expect me to believe in their message or to blindly follow them in their 'convictions', as opposed to what I had always experienced with all the beings in my life like my family, teachers and politicians - but they made it very clear that whether or not you will be effective in realizing who you really are as life itself as oneness and equality is completely dependent on your application of the tools, which is the point of self-responsibility.

this is the point that I have found to be all determining - having walked the process of self-realization since 2008. Because within me taking responsibility for me in every moment of breath, standing as me as the living statement of life itself - I determine and decide who I am, I decide my purpose. Therefore there is no more searching, hoping, expecting or longing for a 'purpose in life' as something separate from myself - as I am the purpose of life, within and as who I really am as I live here, within full awareness of who I am and within full responsibility of myself as the determining factor of my life.

Within applying these tools of self forgiveness, self honesty and self-corrective application, I have been able to permanently stop this experience of lostness, despair and uncertainty within myself as I realize that I am responsible for me, therefore I have the ability to stop all such experiences within myself - and the key has always been self-responsibility.

So, back to my initial question of 'why is it that I have been able to hear the Desteni message while others haven't?'. What I found is that I was open to try anything, to investigate anything, as I was determined to find out about life as what is going on in this world and who I am here - simply because I had lived a life that did not please me, I could not find anything that would make me feel good about myself anymore. It's like Desteni was my only option, my only 'Destiny' - so it's obvious that as long as people have things in their life that they do not want to give up, they will not consider that change is possible and even necessary. It's only when you lose everything that you will start looking for answers and start to open yourself up to the possibilities of what is here. This is the 'human nature' as the ego, wherein people will keep on participating in good, positive feelings as ignorance and unawareness as long as they possibly can - believing that this is who they really are, when really it is not.

So, what is necessary for humanity to start hearing Desteni as the message of change? Obviously what is necessary is for all of our lives to start collapsing, for us to lose the things/people in our lives that we keep holding onto within the belief that we need them to exist - so that we can realize that this is not who we really are and so we can stand up as the living expression of who we really are as life as oneness and equality within and as complete self-responsibility.

And why is this change necessary? Because if we do not start taking responsibility for who we are within ourselves, we are unable to really take responsibility for this world - and the result of that is what we are at the moment faced with, which is the complete destruction of this planet of earth due to to parasitic nature of the human ego that does not consider anything other than it's own personal feelings of happiness, bliss and love and that does not in fact see what is really going on in reality.

It's time we stand up and realize who we really are as life as self-responsible beings that take responsibility for all of life as what is here.
So visit Desteni, as it is our only destiny - and the destiny of earth.


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2012 The Road to Happiness is Paved with Lies and Deception

"Never let old shames keep you spinning in a stagnant sea of regrets. And never, ever let them sink you. For Life didn’t show you your mistakes so you could stay stuck in misgivings. It showed you where you went wrong so you might patch your vessel, pick up your lessons like oars, and row yourself down a more trustworthy route to happiness." ~ by Sandra Kring


So, the bottom line in this previous statement made by Sandra Kring is that 'life' wants for us to be happy, and happiness is apparently our 'goal in life', therefore 'life' will subtly give us hints and clues to gently lead us to the path of happiness.
And the things that we have done in our life that we feel ashamed about and that haunt us in our mind are the ways that 'life' is showing us where we 'took a wrong turn' so we may learn a lesson to not go down that road again, so that we may find happiness as what life apparently wants us to find.

Though this statement was specifically used to make human beings feel good about themselves and 'life' - it is showing us a shocking truth about 'life' that we seem to miss when we allow a statement like this to guide us into experiencing a state of bliss. And that truth is that 'life' apparently wants us to be and remain dumb, ignorant, blind and inferior - because it seems to determine what 'road' our lives should take by 'showing us our mistakes', thus it is basically dictating us what is 'right' and what is 'wrong', where 'happiness' is 'right'. This 'life' that Sandra Kring speaks of expects us to follow some kind of road to a glorious experience of 'happiness' as what all should apparently reach - without even telling or showing us why. We should just follow.

What is life then actually supporting and creating but beings that will not be able to take responsibility for life as what is here - as these beings want to be guided and expect to be guided and shown what is 'right' and 'wrong' and who they are and what is 'real', they will just follow like slaves, in search for some 'wondrous', addictive experience such as 'happiness', of which they know nothing about. They've simply come to accept this 'happiness experience' as 'the ultimate truth' as what has been presented to them by 'life' without having ever investigated for themselves if what is being presented can be trusted or not.

Something that for instance should raise the alarm that this 'life' as the 'happiness experience' cannot be trusted is that Real Life would not want to guide us or show us anything or to anywhere in the first place - because Life, as the animals and nature as the physical reality that is here, needs Self Responsible beings that actually know what they are doing in every moment of breath, beings that stand as Life, one and equal. Life definitely does not need beings that stand inferior to Life, looking for guidance and fixated on this one-dimensional experience as these junkies looking for a fix of 'bliss' and 'happiness' that don't see what is happening to life right in front of their faces.

Life does not need the Human as a creature that does not want to stand one and equal to life as God as the Physical reality as Animals and Nature, but that would much rather run around like a headless chicken, looking for answers to an 'unfulfilled' existence instead of taking responsibility for its existence and for the consequences of its own actions.

For some reason the Human sees itself as this 'special child' of 'life' that deserves a 'special treatment' as 'special guidance' to a 'special experience' of 'happiness' and 'bliss' - while it simultaneously ignores the absolute pain and agony as the hell that is happening to Life as the physical reality at the hands of Human beings, that is the result of the unwillingness of the human to stand one and equal to Life itself and direct itself within complete Self Responsibility to in every moment do what is Best for all Life, and not just what is best for its own personal 'spiritual path of enlightenment'.


Join the Desteni Forum and learn to siff out the deception in the pretty words of Human beings - find out what is Real and What is not and become a Self Responsible being that stands within and as oneness and equality with all life.

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2012 Why has New Years Resolution never been The Solution?

"On this first day of 2012, here's what i wish for: that your heart is filled with wonder and joy, that your days are filled with growth and passion and that your life is flooded with excellence and impact. and that TOGETHER, we work hard to build a world filled with peace, kindness and raw beauty." Robin Sharma (Author - http://www.facebook.com/theofficialrobinsharmapage)

This previous statement is one of those typical New Years Resolutions or Best Wishes Statements that we like to spread around so much because they make us feel warm and fuzzy inside as we like to believe that this is actually a reality.

In fact we like to believe in it so much that we make it a 'reality' ourselves, we make it into our personal reality of nice, warm, fuzzy, happy feelings. We take all these worlds like 'wonder and joy', 'growth and passion', 'excellence and impact' and 'peace, kindness and raw beauty', we insert them into our minds, repeat them over and over to ourselves and thus we start to eventually believe that they are real, forgotten how we made it real in the first place by generating 'positive' feelings based on these 'positive' words.

The question is 'Why do these statements never work?' - How come our New Years wishes and resolutions for a 'Better World' just never seem to become real? - How come these pretty words have never become a reality? I mean, we speak them so much as if they are real, as if they are reality, but meanwhile the world just seems to live its own life, spiraling down a path of self destruction at the hands of the human being.

Could it be that these type of statements are just a 'marketing/propaganda strategy' that we humans use to generate positive energy feelings in all other humans so that they would 'buy into' whatever it is that we are 'selling'? For a brief moment we create the illusion that everything is wonderful and that we should just feel happy about the world and ourselves so that other human beings will follow us and open up their 'hearts' and wallets to us because we make them feel so good as we sell/tell them exactly what they want to hear to justify their existence as a being that participates and supports a system of abuse that is the capitalist system.

Have we not yet come to the realization that these type of metaphysical esoteric statements that only produce feelings are useless when it comes to actual 'world peace' and 'world change'? They are nothing but a 'commercialized' expression of the human that has become the consumer in the system of Capitalism that isn't really interested in 'world peace', it's only interested in the illusion of 'peace' like a product that can be sold in the form of Coca Cola, Oprah, Hollywood, Christmas and New Year and Spirituality - as something that generate a momentary feeling/experience but that has no practical, liveable value what so ever.

Come find out the real Solutions to this world that are in fact practical, liveable and lasting at Equal Money and Desteni

and gain more perspective on the energetic system as the product of consumerism that the human has become and the Solutions - in this Interview with Bernard Poolman "Energy and Consumerism". A discussion with Bernard Poolman with regards to the buttons that drives one to make a consumerism decision that is based on energy instead of self directiveness which within that, Bernard simply shows how we’ve become manipulated, controlled and enslaved to those energetic buttons that activates/triggers certain actions/behaviors within ourselves, by those who have figured out how to push these buttons.

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